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The Business of Busy-ness

by Emma August 3, 2015 7 comments

Do you swell with pride when you cross off your ever-growing to-do list?
Does your life moves so fast that you can barely process anything that happens?

Do you decline invitations to social events with “sorry, but I’m too busy”?

Are you moving from one thing to the next, unconsciously experiencing your entire day, wondering where it all went when you go to bed with the blue glow of your cellphone at 10?

There is a certain pride in non-stop activity, filling each gap of time with something productive, not falling behind, and consistently progressing. The constant movement and development is feeding and simultaneously killing our productivity. We probably don’t see it because we are just too busy. Sure, mundane and innate tasks can be completed at warp speed, requiring zero mental effort. But what about the rest of it? Our critical thinking? Our relationships? Our self-awareness?

busy

STOP the glorification of busy. It’s enough.

Maybe we prize busy-ness as success, or see it as ambition, or see it as a sure measure of future success. After all, business is just busy-ness without the hyphen and one different letter.

I do it all the time, I glorify busy. I over work myself, I complain with a half smile about how many hours I’m working because, well, don’t you feel bad for me? I’m like, so busy, I just can’t be bothered with anything else. But honestly, all I see is a cop out. Instead of trying a new thing, or freeing up time for friends, or myself, I let the cogs of the machine turn and turn.

I’m gagging for a change. I’m just dying to not feel this way anymore, to see free time as my enemy, to see minutes as measurements to be filled with activity.

No rest for the weary, right?

Wrong. Rest is for the weary, for the worn out, for the soon-to-be worn out. Play is not just for children. Even if it is just the five minutes in between meetings and workouts and events, put down the phone, put down the list, put down the book and close your eyes.

Imagine what you would do if you had no obligations. No responsibilities.

And then? Do it.

Swim

Maybe I’m idealistic, but I imagine a day where we stop using money and power as measurements for success and start recognizing that thriving is more important than surviving.

It’s Monday, which means you’re probably beginning your work week. You’re probably writing down a to-do list, reading this and checking Facebook. You’re probably wondering why you feel like life is passing you by. Mondays don’t have to be that bad.

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Jocelyn Schur August 3, 2015 at 4:24 pm

YES!!

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Emma August 4, 2015 at 9:34 am

DOUBLE YES! 🙂

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Andy September 28, 2015 at 12:52 pm

Global frolic no inspiration for nearly two months I’m feeling withdrawal symptoms please post soon you keep my dreams alive 🙂

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Emma September 29, 2015 at 7:26 pm

Hi Andy! I know- I’ve been slacking on the Global Frolic front these past months. Offline life and work took priority. Don’t worry, new posts and new adventures are coming.

Also, I’ve started referring to my dreams as plans and it’s drastically changed the way I view them. Keep your plans alive my friend.

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Andy September 30, 2015 at 5:25 pm

Hi Emma! Thanks for the reply, and thanks for the post! Not enough superlatives to describe Iceland as a choice!!

That sounds like another blog post right there girl!

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Emma October 1, 2015 at 9:04 am

Haha! You just wait. There’s a lot in the works right now. Thank you for the feedback, I am always appreciative when readers tell me what’s up.

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Andy October 2, 2015 at 5:44 pm

I look forward to reading a load more posts in that case ;-)). Cool I love reading your insightful musings and wise thoughts on life there’s some more feedback. Have an awesome time in Iceland write more blogs soon girl!!

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